Divorced at 48. My ex and I hadn’t had sex in over six years. I wasn’t even sure if I missed it… until I realized I’d stopped touching myself too. One night, fueled by a cocktail of grief, freedom, and pure rage at all the time I’d lost, I opened my laptop and bought my first vibe. Didn’t even wait for a headboard. That toy turned on more than just my body — it woke up the part of me I’d buried to survive. And she’s not going back to sleep.
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