How do you wake her up and feel like you're living again?

How do you wake her up and feel like you're living again?

The Disappearing Act - When did your libido ghost you, and what else was happening in your world?

About five years ago. My husband was diagnosed with glioblastoma and passed away March 2021.

The Treasure Hunt - What have you tried to get it back? The eye-roll remedies, the actually-helpful tips, the wild experiments?

I'm on BHRT and I've tried self care, but nothing is the same not having your partner.

The Real Talk - What's been the most challenging or unexpected part of this chapter?

I feel dead now there.

The Right-Now Reality - How are you navigating life while your libido is playing hard to get? Any bright spots or silver linings?

I don't fill myself at all. So much is missing. Zero sex life SUCKS. Miss the intimacy so much.

The Sisterhood Circle - If you could gather with women in the same boat, what would you ask them? What's your "you're not alone" message?

How do you wake her up and feel like you're living again? 


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